Shifting Roles

We generally become comfortable with our roles and prefer to stay in those roles, but sometimes we are looking for that shift, even though it might not be easy. This is a shift I've been waiting for - going from the infertile woman to the expecting mother-to-be. Its a role we've been spending our emotional strength, money and time working our way towards, and now that we are there how do we navigate. It is important to me that how I got to this point is a part of my identity, a part of who this baby will be. The excitement is there, but I know for many it is not there yet and I don't want to be the expecting mother who reminds them of that constantly. It is another balance I will work towards achieving in my life.